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February 06, 2010 Letter to Editor
Travis Hutton died 1/21/10.
He was our grandson and we saw the article you wrote
about his death. We were very displeased and felt it
was written in bad taste, was unkind and derogatory.
All you mentioned were his police records and you
published a police picture.
You could have published his graduation picture, but
you didn't. You obviously didn't talk to his
parents, grandparents or the principal of his school
to learn that he was an intelligent, happy and
charismatic young man. He was 18 and almost 19 and
had been living away from his parents and
grandparents for months, from what we were told. You
didn't know many facts about him or the type of
family he had.
You seem to think teenagers might read your article
and it would make a difference. Wrong! Most
teenagers aren't going to read an article like yours
and if they did would blow it off. The kids who knew
him would have been angry. You made it sound like he
was a very troubled alcoholic teenager. He obviously
made some bad decisions, that resulted in his
needless death, but it doesn't mean he was a "bad"
young man.
Haven't you looked at statistics? Teenage alcohol
consumption is at epidemic levels. According to USA
Today and research, one third of all teenagers binge
drink at least once a month and they drink 25% of
the alcoholic beverages sold in this country. 81% of
the kids have consumed alcohol and 70% have smoked
cigarettes. 87% of adults admitted to trying alcohol
before the age of 21. Travis was just doing what
many teenagers do. You mentioned that it wouldn't be
a surprise, if alcohol was involved in the incident.
Well, the police did not arrest the driver for being
under the influence and did not express that there
was any alcohol use by anyone involved in the
accident. You were making an unkind and needless
assumption.
His mother, June Cherry, is an ordained minister.
She performed his celebration of life memorial
service. Can you imagine the strength and faith she
must have had to stand up in front of hundreds of
people? Many friends, family members and his
principal stood up and expressed what an
intelligent, happy, charasmatic and compassionate
person he was. His mother commented that Travis had
been fearless, since he was a toddler. He lived
everyday like it was his last.
His friends mentioned Travis lived life on the edge.
Lack of fear and his need to take risks is what
killed our grandson. Would counseling have helped
Travis? Probably not. He was the type of young man
who was going to take risks, regardless of
counseling, parental controls or consequences. With
kids like him, you do what you can and pray they
make it to adulthood.
My husband has told me some of the risky things he
and his friends did as teenagers. His friends have
told my husband of the dangerous things they did as
teenagers. It is a wonder they are alive. They
didn't have to be drunk to do those things. They did
it on a dare or for the thrill of it. My husband
came from a very loving stable family and he
attended church regularly. He wasn't a bad kid or
alcoholic.
We are sure when you were a teenager, you knew kids
like Travis. How would you feel if someone had
written an article like yours, after loosing one of
your children? Why didn't you investigate to find
out the type of young man he was? Why didn't you
print a nice picture of him? Where is your
compassion for the family and friends left behind?
You obviously were just interested in writing the
negative things about him and sensationalizing the
incident. This type of reporting is why my husband
and I dislke the media and the things they do to
families. Was Travis an evil murderer? No he was a
teenager, who made bad decisions and big mistake.
The point I am trying to make is that teenagers
don't always use common sense and many are going to
do risky things sometimes and are going to
experiment with alcohol, drugs and cigarettes,
despite the consquences. This is a fact. Do we
condone that type of behavior, certainly not! As a
parent you try to educate your children and instill
good values. Most teenagers are going to be somewhat
rebellious, but those positive values you worked to
instill will often prevail in adulthood.
If you want to make a difference, encourage the
public and legislators to outlaw "car/air surfing"
It is illegal in some european countries. You could
also push for mandatory alcohol and drug classes,
starting in middle school. We don't mean one hour
films or speakers once a year, but real in depth
classes. We live in Oklahoma and cannot do much to
change laws in Texas.
Did your article make a difference in helping to
curb drug and alcohol abuse by teenagers? Probably
not. It dishonored Travis and created more heartache
for his family and friends. In the future, we hope
you express more compassion and integrity, with
those in your community, when losses occur. We pray
you will apologize to his family and friends and
will print this response to the editor.
Jimmy and Mary Love
Editor's Response
The final news article about Travis Hutton was
one of unspeakable tragedy for his family. LNO
reported 5 arrests of this young man over just a few
months time and at least twice his arrest for being
drunk at the high school before 10:30 in the
morning. LNO even offered an editorial note that
"someone should help this kid" after the 4th arrest
reported on Travis.
Unfortunately Travis holds the record for arrests
reported on LNO in a decade of reporting local news.
LNO reported on his tragic death with a review of
his frequent arrests and believe anyone would have
concluded he was potentially a "troubled teenager."
LNO
never stated he was a "bad kid" or inferred he
was not liked by his peers.
Hopefully your comments will resonate with families
and others and through legislation and/or
educational efforts a similar tragedy of even one
teenage can be avoided.
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